Just heard from my friend, Cathy Cristall, who attended your party last night. Peter and i just want to wish you all the very best of health, happiness and joy. What memories you must have of Edmonton and all your friends!! Much love, Peter & Eva Pocklington
Reasons I'm going to miss working with Russ... - His discerning eye & flamboyant descriptive adjectives for the ladies. - The laughs & amazing stories about his years in the business. - The occasional drama. - The late night pasta dinners. - The time spent together as co-workers, friends and brothers. I'm going to miss you brother, peace, prosperity & happiness to you and Pauline always. - Lainer.
Well Russell, you snuck away without even saying goodbye...and after everything we've done for you!! ;) Anyway, you will always be a legend in your own right. I am not really quite sure what we are going to do with ourselves now. (Perhaps we will have to make that trip out to Watson afterall...) Best wishes to you and Pauline. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love always, Mark + Jill.
Hi Russell, You may not remember me, but we lived in the same building on 112 Street about 10 years ago. What I have rembered about you throughout the years is your complete love of cats - I gave you a couple of cat beds to try out on your new addition. Being overly fond of cats myself, I felt a true affinity to your natural gentleness. I also remember your sadness and search to find a foothold. I am happy that you have found serenity and love - may they travel with you always. Diane
You don't know me, I am just one of the many people your smiling face greeted and welcomed into the Hardware Grill. I would like to thank you for your smiling face, kind words and always exceptional service in your job. You are the bar for service in Edmonton and the Hardware Grill will be a different place without you. I hope that you enjoy your retirement life to the fullest!
Dear Russell, It has been an honor to have spent time with you over the many years. Both Laurie and I have fond memories of your charm and sense of humor, but mostly how you made EVERYONE you met feel special. Russell we are thinking about you and sending you light. We look forward to seeing you again.
Russell, my husband and I just two of the thousands of happy customers you have served over the years. Married 36 years (and counting!), we have been celebrating our wedding anniversary on December 21 by going out to dinner at the Hardware Grill (and before that at Jack's) for many years now. You were always our waiter. We looked forward to the meal not only for what it celebrated but also for your attentive, kind, knowledgeable and, yes, charming, service. Last December you weren't there and we missed you. I was very sorry to read that you have been so ill and send our deepest wishes for a long and happy life in retirement. We'll be drinking a special toast on December 21 to your continuing health and happiness. Frances and David Cruden
Don Archbold here. I recently moved back to Edmononton and the last time I spoke with Freddy he told me you were still in Edmonton, but it appears you're now off to Saskatchewan (I've already done my time there) and I certainly wish you all the best. By the way, I still quote a funny comment you made years ago upon your return from Australia 'the guys there all surf until their 20, then they become brick layers'. It still gets a laugh everytime.
Rusty, Maybe a long time since you've used that moniker - but back in Veg growing up that is who you were, and who I remember you as! I want you to know that as just one of your "old" friends from way back, I am so pleased to know that you are so well regarded for your personable spirit and friendliness. It is good to retire from a position that you were good at, and one that made you memorable in people's minds. My best to you as you fight your illness with a loving wife at your side. Know that I will be with you in spirit, as will all your many friends and acquaintances. Sheelagh (King - from King's Drugs)
There are a lot of great restaurants in Edmonton: there is but one Russell Frame.
Food is only part of the dining experience. Knowledgeable service by someone who genuinely cares about a customer makes the balance of an evening out.
Russell, whether it was a birthday, an anniversary, entertaining special guests or no occasion at all, it was you that made every effort to make it a memorable experience. You treat total strangers like treasured friends.
Nancy, Lauren, Jared, Mackenzie and I wish you and Pauline the best in retirement. When you come to Washington DC, let me reciprocate your hospitality.
Love,
Gary G. Mar Alberta Washington Office gary.mar@gov.ab.ca
The dictionary says many things but one of the many says....an association or community of people linked to a common interest. I have known Rusty since I was a kid and his love and compassion would always light up my world whenever we met. As my mentor in brotherhood training and living through the many decades we have seen he taught me to be charming and consistient in the delivery of the message "Hey Brother!" I intend to continue the tradition that was started by my dear friend years ago and will be passed on to my sons to carry on. Are you feeling me!
Dewey said Hey Rusty I just read in the journal that you have dicided to retire to Sask, and I must say you will leave a void here in Edmonton. It was such a surprise to meet you at the Hardware Grill upon my return to Edmonton in 03. It had to be more then 40 years since we laced up or skates for a game. I'm sure you as well as me look back at the old area where we grew up and for the most part are not too proud of some of the things we did as kids, but we can take pride in the fact that we did take the right road. Sharon and I wish you and your wife the very best in your new adventure, and you still owe me a golf game that you promised the last time we talked. Keep in touch. Your old friend Dewey McMahon
Rusty, sorry I didn't get a chance to talk to you before you left town. We've only known each other for 3 or 4 yrs.[guess that's really 30 or 40, where do they go?] Anyways, all the best to you & Pauline in the "flatlands" & will try to get in touch thru facebook to give you my email address. LOVE always, your "smoochin' buddy". Brian J. Knight
Hi, Russ.This is John Bruces dad.He was in the hospital in the next bed to you.We met you several times at the Cross.We think of you often and wish you all the best and a long and happy retirement.I will send the info from the Journal to my son in Drayton.Take care John and Margaret Bruce.
Russell and Pauline We wanted to add our name and comments to your long list of admirers.Your presence and beautiful smile will be dearly missed. All the best to you both and may our paths cross again very soon. Much love Larry and Kathy Hawrelak and the girls too
Hey Rusty: We go back a long, long (geez) long ways, the days of light shows at the Kinsmen Fieldhouse! What stands out the most is your fabulous smile....and you're still smiling. ALL the girls wanted to date you! I'm sure little Karol will send her wishes as well, but from her and I, we wish you the very best in your retirement. Who would have thought you'd be missed by so many? Will pray for your continued recovery from your illness. Take care, buddy.
Penny Vincent Karol Kuzyk (on her behalf until she sends her own wishes!)
Russell, it's Rob Kaczanowski. I used to bartend at Earl's Tin Palace on Jasper Ave back in 1992. You had just moved back to Edmonton at the time. You frequented my Oyster Bar throughout the summer. I can still here your voice after all these years. It was a busy summer in 1992. I remember being absorbed in the chaos of the Tin Palace Lounge. To escape it all, I would saunter back down to the quiet south-end of the bar to chat with you. You sat relaxed and were always smiling and never demanding. And yes, you called me Brother too. When the summer ended, I went off to school overseas (Sweden), then moved to Calgary, and never saw you again.
I just received an email this morning from a friend of mine in Edmonton. The email had a copy of the Edmonton Journal article and the link to your blog. The email was vague and said "Thought you might be interested in this". I wasn't sure what the article was about or who it was focussed on. As I began reading it I felt a bit of a chill. It started to sound familiar. I wasn't sure how my friend in Edmonton knew to forward the article to me. How did he know you? How did he know that I knew you? I then realized that my friend and I had eaten dinner on New Years eve at the Hardware Grill in Edmonton in 2001. While eating, we looked up and saw you running around the restaurant in full form doing what you do best. It had been 9 years since I last seen you at my Oyster Bar. I pulled you aside, introduced you to my friend, and we reminisced about the Oyster Bar at Earls. As I left the restaurant that night, I said "I hope I see you again Russell - maybe in another 9 years!"
My friend in Edmonton had read the article and instantly remembered his brief introduction to you 7 years ago. Just as I remember my brief but meaningful introduction to you 16 years ago. Few people are able to make the impression that you have made Russell.
All the best Brother. And I still hope I see you again.
Russell, you have touched so many lives with your beautiful spirit. Terry and I will miss our fun-filled dinners with you at the H. Grill. Wishing you much happiness and peace on your retirement. Just know that everyone is sending good vibes your way! Love Helen and Terry Antoniuk
Russell Living south of Camrose we haven't made time to get to the Grill for a number of years. What we do remember is how well you always took care of us and our guests. You were a professional in the best sense of the word, educating, guiding and entertaining while accepting dietary quirks and needs. Often when we left we talked more of our time with you than the meal itself. We wish you and your partner strength, joy and peace in this next leg of your life journey. Thank you for being the life force you are. Mike Jones and Alyson Lavers
Hello Russ, Whatis all this? What's all the fuss about? Don't think for a minute I don't know what all the fuss is about. When I'm in Vancouver and I hear "Russ Frame is probably the best waiter in Edmonton" you gotta know that's HUGE! Well Russ, all the best and if I could only leave you with one thought, it's this...9 and 1 is 10 and ten is twenty...well, I think you know the rest! Take care Rooster Dave Sorochan
Russ, it is always such a treat for me and for my family to spend some time with you. I'm so sorry to learn that you have been ill. However, given your success at meeting and handling the various challenges that life has presented to you, I know that you will continue to live your life with the same spirit, grace and humour that has always landed you on your feet, and always with that gorgeous smile! Warmest wishes to you and Pauline for a wonderful life in Watson. Lots of love always, Joan Riddle and family.
I just read Scott McKeen's column from August 13. I didn't realize that you haven't been well - thought you and Pauline were just taking an extended winter in Mexico.
I want you to know how special you have been in my life - every visit to the Hardware Grill (and to Jack's Grill before that) was turned into a memorable evening by having you as our waiter. I always looked forward to a chat and to catching up with what was new in your life. You have a talent and a flair that I have never seen duplicated. All of Scott's comments are true - you always made every one of your customers feel uniquely special.
I wish you and Pauline the very best in your move to my home province, and I have every confidence that the beauty and peace of the prairies will bring you happiness and serenity.
Hi Russell, we are now living on Vancouver Island so haven't seen you in quite a while. A friend sent me the cutting from the Journal. Just wanted to say thank you for all the times you made our dinners memorable. Lloyd and I will be thinking of you and our thoughts and prayers are with you for the next stage of your life. With love Lloyd and Treacy Reddington
Dearest Russell and Pauline, I have missed seeing you at the City Market and will continue to miss you. It has been years now that Russell has walked by (orange puffy jacket in the winter) and waved and said hi to Lola, big smile. It's also where I first saw Pauline's beautful canvases. I have the card of her painting of the market on the wall above my desk. It's so colourful and full of life, the market exactly. I'll think of you in your cosy house in peaceful Watson and wish sweetness upon sweetness upon you. Patty
Hi Russell: You have a special and permanent place in my heart! We first met at the HG a few years ago when my sister Kathy, her husband Doug, and I stopped in for a quick dinner. Kathy had terminal brain cancer and despite her illness, she was immediately enamoured with you. No surprise there, and you in your inimitable style, were just yourself. Doug and I watched with amusement and appreciation as you and her connected in conversation and flirtation…and for a couple of hours, we forgot how sick she was. Even after her mind was no longer clear, she frequently spoke about you and our dinner. So much so, that I contacted you to tell you about the impact you had on her, and of course us. She would light up whenever I mentioned your name, and that you had inquired about her, sending your regards, etc. Those moments have become lasting memories for me; thank you.
Russell, I missed you at the Cross, thought I would let you know I am improving and part of that improvement was thanks to you and your positive air, I hope you are recovering well as I am and continue to improve with no repeat performances. Enjoy your new retired life and one day maybe when we can both swallow fully again I will buy you a steak at your old haunt. Hope we meet again in a more appealing place, John Bruce drop me a line sometime, at firesnake05@yahoo.ca
Dear Russ - I was shocked when i read Scott McKeen's column. The posts here do not surprise me. You always left an impression on people, That smile will do it every time. If I am ever in Watson, Sask., I will definitely look you up, and maybe bring you a ham and cheese sandwich.:) Wow, it's been over 40 years.
Love and best wishes to you and Pauline. Take good care and enjoy the retirement.
Russ, it seems like a very long time since we last spent time together in Edmonton, at least 35 years I guess. I wanted to let you know that I am on the same journey you are on, only my sanctuary is at Pender Harbour on the Sunshine Coast. Dave Sorochan shared your story with me and I was touched by how your taking things in stride, the way I always remember you doing. I know that you will do very well in the future and that, like me, for however long that is you will enjoy every day. I met a Texas Farmer down in Houston at the MD Anderson Cancer Centre that shared a simple but important thought with me. He told me that every morning, if your eyes open and your feet hit the ground, its a good day. Almost every day since that chance meeting has been a good day for me. I sense that you are having many good days yourself.
Dave Sorochan, Gil Mercier and I tried to get Fred out for a lunch a few months ago, but his schedule didn't permit. I will seek him out again soon, just to catch up after so many years.
Take care Russ, and if you want to get in touch, I would love to catch up.
Russell, Whenever Scott & I had the opportunity to get out without our kids, it was never a question of where we wanted to go. The Hardware grill of course, but not only because of the food, atmosphere, etc.... but mainly because we knew we would have the best service, & an enjoyable visit with you! We have celebrated our wedding anniversary many times and have brought friends to share a night out, knowing that we would enjoy your charming, knowledgeable, & attentive service. We have traveled the world, eaten at many a fine establishment, but have never have had a server as wonderful as you! The last couple of times we were out, you weren't there and we missed you. We are very sorry to hear of your health struggles, but will be keeping you close in our thoughts for better days ahead! Enjoy your new home, the golf games, & each great drive! next time your in Edmonton, come out to the course for a round with us! We will miss you, & your beautiful smile! Francine & Scott Krupa
Russell: I haven't been to the Hardware Grill in some time and, like many others, read the latest about you in Scott's column. It was quite a tribute to you as a professional and as a person. I took some time and read the many posts on the Hardware Grill website. It must be gratifying indeed to know how many lives you have touched. The message that emanates is clear and unequivocal and one that I am happy to summarize --- Russell, you're a class act! Edmonton's loss is Saskatchewan's gain. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your wife as you as you face the challenges ahead. Here's hoping you are able to experience a lengthy retirement with the same kind of happiness and joy you brought to so many others for so many many years. Au revoir et bon chance mon ami. A la prochaine fois, Ivan I
I had the opportunity to dine at the Hardware Grill back in 2007. Absolutely floored by the waiter we had that evening. We were treated like royalty by the man they call "Rooster". All the best Brother as you start a new chapter in your Long and Happy life. Take care
Dear Russ A short note to send our love and best wishes to you and Pauline. We were fortunate to catch Scott McKeen's column in the Journal last week,and wanted you to know,you have been in our thoughts. We have many fond memories of great service,and fun visits,while dining in our favorite restaurants where you worked. Your friendly and charming manner and great service made the good food at Jack's and The Hardware Grill even better. We send hugs to you and will always keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Thinking of You!! Love from the Smolyk's Jerry,Midge,Kirstie and Lindy
Hello Russ,Sorry to hear about the bad news, I hope everything goes well for the resr of the trip. Knowing you for 45 years or more has been a wonderful experience and I will always remember how nice you were to me. I think of you often and will miss you greatly brother. You never did come to see my yard. All the best to you and Pauline. See you in the Smitty's in the sky.Bruce Sharon Dylan and our Grandson Jake Alexander
Hi Russell, It's a pleasure to have met you years ago, when I came to hardware grill with my mother and larry(step dad.) And I was sick and went home but i loved your concern although I did not eat there.And Every time I visit my family In Edmonton( the 6 Hour flight from NYC) I make sure to get a booking in your section at the Hardware grill as part of the deal for me coming so far. I am now living in Rome, Italy. With my tall,dark and handsome, he reminds me of you. I don't know if I will ever come back, But if I do, I will still ask for a table in your section. Love Carol ann Ransaw
Hey Rusty!!! Where have all the years and people gone? Hanging out at Walt's Table Supply and Smitty's in the sixties doesn't seem like that long ago brother. We always seemed destined to cross each others paths throughout life, sometimes in the least likely places. I remember driving through a blinding snowstorm near Ft.Saskatchewan in the wee hours only to find you hitching by the side of the road!! I will always look fondly on our times together. I did get your phone message but was unable to call you back due to my own medical crisis. I suffered a major heart attack in Jan.04. Survival was touch and go with 2 major by-pass operations. I have never recovered fully from the ordeal and am now semi-retired. I would like to keep in touch. Drop me a line barbdean.thompson@gmail.com Take good care of yourself, buddy. Dean
Russell; Sometimes words are inadequate and somewhat insufficient to express feelings. Please know Max and I have much affection for you. You and Pauline are in our thoughts and our prayers. I wish for you what I wish upon myself, peace and grace as we continue on life's journey.
Thank you for having enriched my life simply by having met you so many, many years ago. I have picked up The Prophet and will re-read it.
Penny was right..I certainly do want to wish you all the best in your retirement Russ...and who knows? Maybe one day my travels will take me to a small town called Watson so that I can also wish you well in person..I think of you often and have many fun memories of skipping school and hanging out with you and your friends..Eli's Cafe and bubblegum..LOL..those were such fun times!! xo Little Karol xo
Sorry we didn't get to see you one more time this summer before you retired to Watson. All our family want you to know how much we have appreciated your friendship over the last 20 years that have gone by so quickly.
We always felt you were part of the family when we dined together on special nights out. And we will miss you much more than you can imagine, as will all your devoted following at Jack's and the H.G. Because it wasn't so much the great food we came for. It was in anticipation of seeing you again and knowing that you would take such good care of us with your ready smile and genuine warmth. All the fun, laughter and many good memories we shared together, we owe to you. It just won't be the same on all our special occasions without you there to welcome us back. We will miss you a lot and wish you and Pauline good health and happiness in your retirement together.
Hey Russell! From the moment Bruce introduced you to Art and me, I knew that you are no ordinary guy. It was always a treat to visit with you in the restaurant and a complete pleasure to watch you work with food, and people! I thought from the very beginning that .. if the world were peopled with Russells .. there would be no problems. Best of luck in Saskatchewan. Mary & Art Packer
Uncle Russ!!! Oh how you will be missed by all....You know that my family loves you and has enjoyed your kindness to us all over the years. Though you wern't my "real" uncle...you will, always be my Uncle Russ :) Love, Dana Danyluk (and of course Joe, Lois, Kelsey and Rochelle)
Hi brother, Just want to send both Trish's and my love to both you and Pauline. Hope that you are feeling well, and you know that we both miss your hug's, your word's and that always to be missed, and never matched, friendship with incredible service. You are one of a kind Russ. Just hit the ball straight, as always enjoy the morning sun, and that great bottle of wine with dinner! Thoughts and love, Trish and Vance.
Hello cousin, Joyce and I had a wonderful time with you, Pauline and Sharon last week. We'll be back next August when we can get in a round and spend more time together. Get well and say hi to Pauline and Sharon. You have a lovely home Russ......Love you, cousin Doug
WELL RUSSELL I TOO WAS SURPRISED BY THE ARTICLE IN THE EDMONTON JOURNAL BUT NOT SURPRISED BY THE OUTPOURING OF LOVE FOR YOU. ALTHOUGH WE MET 1000 YEARS AGO I NEVER FORGOT YOUR CHARM AND YOUR SMILE. I WISH YOU AND PAULINE PEACE AND LOVE. RUSSELL LONG MAY YOU RUN. ALL MY LOVE BECKY
Hi --- just read the article about you on this site, and have to say it is too bad that you are not around the Hardware Grill to teach newcomers how to treat the customers. Last night was my first visit to the Grill, and if I go by my experience with the waiter we had, it will be my last. He did not make me feel welcome, or comfortable at all. In fact, I found him rude, arrogant and condesending to say the least. Now, maybe it was just me, not understanding his 'sense of humour' if that is what one would call it... but when I have relayed my experience to others, they all agree with my assessment. From the start, when asking if he could bring us something to drink, (I don't drink much, but do enjoy dacquaries.. so asked about them)and being told that the "blended or fruity drinks are not available, that we are not that kind of place" to the end, when having dessert, he stopped by to see how it was going, and my husband was still working on his, as was I, he made a comment to my husbands response that yes, he was still working on it, to the effect that "well, if not, I am sure you (meaning me) will finish it", which made me feel like he thought of me as a pig, hog, glutton... that would clean up my husbands plate. I was very upset after dinner, and my husband knew something was wrong, but I am a lady, and don't like to make a scene in the restaurant. On the way home, after hearing of my feelings, my husband wished I would have said something, as he then would not have left the tip that he did. So, even though I have never met you, or been waited on by you, I am sure you will be missed in this industry... truly is hard to find good help! Best of luck to you in the future!!!
I too was one of the many that felt like my table was the only table in the place when Russel was our server. It didn't matter if Russel served you or not, he always made his way over to say hi and ask how life was treating you. I will always look for his friendly smile and warm spirit when I enter the the Hardware Grill. He truly was what made the Hardware Grill spectacular for me. all the best Bambi
Hi Russel, We wish you and Pauline all the best. We will miss you so much at The Hardware Grill. You were always our favorite server.Your charm, your smile, your service, your wonderful stories......No one will be able to take your place. You will be greatly missed by so many people. My dad Frank wishes you all the best aswell. Warmest Wishes Russell. Britta and Mike Yasinski
Rooster... Sorry this arrives so late. Thanks for the love and the entertainment over the years. Watching Larry try to hunt you down because of a couple truffles was one of the most memorable moments for me at the HG. All the best to you in Sask. My favorite saying comes from you too. "The wider the waistband...." You know how to finish it off. Love yuh, you 'filthy pig'. Clark xo
Hey, Rooster, Ian and I will miss you on our delightful visits at Hardware and running into you at the farmer's market and around. I hope you have lots of love in your orchard retreat with your lovely wife as you find your way back to blooming health. And if you ever want to look into a vegan raw food for health, just ask. I'd love to share what I know.
Hi Pauline and Russell. I've heard the news. I wish it wasn't true. You still have the love and support from Pauline and your pets. Stay strong, take care of yourself. Merry Christmas! Love Mario at the Hardware.
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Just heard from my friend, Cathy Cristall, who attended your party last night. Peter and i just want to wish you all the very best of health, happiness and joy. What memories you must have of Edmonton and all your friends!! Much love, Peter & Eva Pocklington
Reasons I'm going to miss working with Russ...
- His discerning eye & flamboyant descriptive adjectives for the ladies.
- The laughs & amazing stories about his years in the business.
- The occasional drama.
- The late night pasta dinners.
- The time spent together as co-workers, friends and brothers.
I'm going to miss you brother, peace, prosperity & happiness to you and Pauline always. - Lainer.
Well Russell, you snuck away without even saying goodbye...and after everything we've done for you!! ;) Anyway, you will always be a legend in your own right. I am not really quite sure what we are going to do with ourselves now. (Perhaps we will have to make that trip out to Watson afterall...) Best wishes to you and Pauline. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love always, Mark + Jill.
All the best in your next journey through life.
Ronald Poon
Busboy from "The Steak Loft"
1976 - 1980
Hi Russell,
You may not remember me, but we lived in the same building on 112 Street about 10 years ago. What I have rembered about you throughout the years is your complete love of cats - I gave you a couple of cat beds to try out on your new addition.
Being overly fond of cats myself, I felt a true affinity to your natural gentleness.
I also remember your sadness and search to find a foothold. I am happy that you have found serenity and love - may they travel with you always.
Diane
Russell,
You don't know me, I am just one of the many people your smiling face greeted and welcomed into the Hardware Grill. I would like to thank you for your smiling face, kind words and always exceptional service in your job. You are the bar for service in Edmonton and the Hardware Grill will be a different place without you. I hope that you enjoy your retirement life to the fullest!
Sincerely
Peggy Gilchrist
Dear Russell, It has been an honor to have spent time with you over the many years. Both Laurie and I have fond memories of your charm and sense of humor, but mostly how you made EVERYONE you met feel special.
Russell we are thinking about you and sending you light. We look forward to seeing you again.
Laurie and Robert Rogers
Russell, my husband and I just two of the thousands of happy customers you have served over the years. Married 36 years (and counting!), we have been celebrating our wedding anniversary on December 21 by going out to dinner at the Hardware Grill (and before that at Jack's) for many years now. You were always our waiter. We looked forward to the meal not only for what it celebrated but also for your attentive, kind, knowledgeable and, yes, charming, service. Last December you weren't there and we missed you. I was very sorry to read that you have been so ill and send our deepest wishes for a long and happy life in retirement. We'll be drinking a special toast on December 21 to your continuing health and happiness.
Frances and David Cruden
Hey Russ,
We want to wish you the best future you can possibly have. It's been a real pleasure knowing you - you are quite a character!
Brian, Laurie, Hayley & Courtney Gibson
russ, all will miss your smiling face around edmonton.
all the best to you and your family.
fondly, patrice matheson
Hi Russ,
Don Archbold here. I recently moved back to Edmononton and the last time I spoke with Freddy he told me you were still in Edmonton, but it appears you're now off to Saskatchewan (I've already done my time there) and I certainly wish you all the best. By the way, I still quote a funny comment you made years ago upon your return from Australia 'the guys there all surf until their 20, then they become brick layers'. It still gets a laugh everytime.
Take care,
Don
Rusty,
Maybe a long time since you've used that moniker - but back in Veg growing up that is who you were, and who I remember you as! I want you to know that as just one of your "old" friends from way back, I am so pleased to know that you are so well regarded for your personable spirit and friendliness. It is good to retire from a position that you were good at, and one that made you memorable in people's minds. My best to you as you fight your illness with a loving wife at your side. Know that I will be with you in spirit, as will all your many friends and acquaintances.
Sheelagh (King - from King's Drugs)
Russell
There are a lot of great restaurants in Edmonton: there is but one Russell Frame.
Food is only part of the dining experience. Knowledgeable service by someone who genuinely cares about a customer makes the balance of an evening out.
Russell, whether it was a birthday, an anniversary, entertaining special guests or no occasion at all, it was you that made every effort to make it a memorable experience. You treat total strangers like treasured friends.
Nancy, Lauren, Jared, Mackenzie and I wish you and Pauline the best in retirement. When you come to Washington DC, let me reciprocate your hospitality.
Love,
Gary G. Mar
Alberta Washington Office
gary.mar@gov.ab.ca
The meaning of BROTHERHOOD.
The dictionary says many things but one of the many says....an association or community of people linked to a common interest. I have known Rusty since I was a kid and his love and compassion would always light up my world whenever we met. As my mentor in brotherhood training and living through the many decades we have seen he taught me to be charming and consistient in the delivery of the message "Hey Brother!" I intend to continue the tradition that was started by my dear friend years ago and will be passed on to my sons to carry on. Are you feeling me!
Dewey said
Hey Rusty
I just read in the journal that you have dicided to retire to Sask, and I must say you will leave a void here in Edmonton. It was such a surprise to meet you at the Hardware Grill upon my return to Edmonton in 03. It had to be more then 40 years since we laced up or skates for a game. I'm sure you as well as me look back at the old area where we grew up and for the most part are not too proud of some of the things we did as kids, but we can take pride in the fact that we did take the right road. Sharon and I wish you and your wife the very best in your new adventure, and you still owe me a golf game that you promised the last time we talked.
Keep in touch.
Your old friend
Dewey McMahon
Russell thank you for all the joy you have brought into my life.
Every moment with you has made me smile.
Charlayne Bozak
Rusty, sorry I didn't get a chance to talk to you before you left town. We've only known each other for 3 or 4 yrs.[guess that's really 30 or 40, where do they go?] Anyways, all the best to you & Pauline in the "flatlands" & will try to get in touch thru facebook to give you my email address. LOVE always, your "smoochin' buddy". Brian J. Knight
Hi, Russ.This is John Bruces dad.He was in the hospital in the next bed to you.We met you several times at the Cross.We think of you often and wish you all the best and a long and happy retirement.I will send the info from the Journal to my son in Drayton.Take care John and Margaret Bruce.
Russell and Pauline
We wanted to add our name and comments to your long list of admirers.Your presence and beautiful smile will be dearly missed. All the best to you both and may our paths cross again very soon. Much love Larry and Kathy Hawrelak and the girls too
Hey Russ, we sure do miss your smiling face. We are thinking good thoughts and wishing you and the lovely Pauline a long and prosperous life
Ann and Sid
Love ya, Brother. Hope you're well. Lots of thoughts and what strength I can spare is all yours. Miss ya. - Mike Franchuk.
Hey Rusty: We go back a long, long (geez) long ways, the days of light shows at the Kinsmen Fieldhouse! What stands out the most is your fabulous smile....and you're still smiling. ALL the girls wanted to date you! I'm sure little Karol will send her wishes as well, but from her and I, we wish you the very best in your retirement. Who would have thought you'd be missed by so many? Will pray for your continued recovery from your illness. Take care, buddy.
Penny Vincent
Karol Kuzyk (on her behalf until she sends her own wishes!)
Russell, it's Rob Kaczanowski. I used to bartend at Earl's Tin Palace on Jasper Ave back in 1992. You had just moved back to Edmonton at the time. You frequented my Oyster Bar throughout the summer. I can still here your voice after all these years. It was a busy summer in 1992. I remember being absorbed in the chaos of the Tin Palace Lounge. To escape it all, I would saunter back down to the quiet south-end of the bar to chat with you. You sat relaxed and were always smiling and never demanding. And yes, you called me Brother too. When the summer ended, I went off to school overseas (Sweden), then moved to Calgary, and never saw you again.
I just received an email this morning from a friend of mine in Edmonton. The email had a copy of the Edmonton Journal article and the link to your blog. The email was vague and said "Thought you might be interested in this". I wasn't sure what the article was about or who it was focussed on. As I began reading it I felt a bit of a chill. It started to sound familiar. I wasn't sure how my friend in Edmonton knew to forward the article to me. How did he know you? How did he know that I knew you? I then realized that my friend and I had eaten dinner on New Years eve at the Hardware Grill in Edmonton in 2001. While eating, we looked up and saw you running around the restaurant in full form doing what you do best. It had been 9 years since I last seen you at my Oyster Bar. I pulled you aside, introduced you to my friend, and we reminisced about the Oyster Bar at Earls. As I left the restaurant that night, I said "I hope I see you again Russell - maybe in another 9 years!"
My friend in Edmonton had read the article and instantly remembered his brief introduction to you 7 years ago. Just as I remember my brief but meaningful introduction to you 16 years ago. Few people are able to make the impression that you have made Russell.
All the best Brother. And I still hope I see you again.
Rob Kaczanowski
Russell, you have touched so many lives with your beautiful spirit. Terry and I will miss our fun-filled dinners with you at the H. Grill. Wishing you much happiness and peace on your retirement. Just know that everyone is sending good vibes your way! Love Helen and Terry Antoniuk
Russell
Living south of Camrose we haven't made time to get to the Grill for a number of years. What we do remember is how well you always took care of us and our guests. You were a professional in the best sense of the word, educating, guiding and entertaining while accepting dietary quirks and needs. Often when we left we talked more of our time with you than the meal itself. We wish you and your partner strength, joy and peace in this next leg of your life journey. Thank you for being the life force you are.
Mike Jones and Alyson Lavers
Hello Russ, Whatis all this? What's all the fuss about? Don't think for a minute I don't know what all the fuss is about. When I'm in Vancouver and I hear "Russ Frame is probably the best waiter in Edmonton" you gotta know that's HUGE!
Well Russ, all the best and if I could only leave you with one thought, it's this...9 and 1 is 10 and ten is twenty...well, I think you know the rest! Take care Rooster
Dave Sorochan
Russ, it is always such a treat for me and for my family to spend some time with you. I'm so sorry to learn that you have been ill. However, given your success at meeting and handling the various challenges that life has presented to you, I know that you will continue to live your life with the same spirit, grace and humour that has always landed you on your feet, and always with that gorgeous smile! Warmest wishes to you and Pauline for a wonderful life in Watson. Lots of love always, Joan Riddle and family.
Dear Russell,
I just read Scott McKeen's column from August 13. I didn't realize that you haven't been well - thought you and Pauline were just taking an extended winter in Mexico.
I want you to know how special you have been in my life - every visit to the Hardware Grill (and to Jack's Grill before that) was turned into a memorable evening by having you as our waiter. I always looked forward to a chat and to catching up with what was new in your life. You have a talent and a flair that I have never seen duplicated. All of Scott's comments are true - you always made every one of your customers feel uniquely special.
I wish you and Pauline the very best in your move to my home province, and I have every confidence that the beauty and peace of the prairies will bring you happiness and serenity.
I will miss you.
In friendship,
Faye Parker
Hi Russell, we are now living on Vancouver Island so haven't seen you in quite a while. A friend sent me the cutting from the Journal. Just wanted to say thank you for all the times you made our dinners memorable. Lloyd and I will be thinking of you and our thoughts and prayers are with you for the next stage of your life. With love Lloyd and Treacy Reddington
Dearest Russell and Pauline,
I have missed seeing you at the City Market and will continue to miss you. It has been years now that Russell has walked by (orange puffy jacket in the winter) and waved and said hi to Lola, big smile. It's also where I first saw Pauline's beautful canvases. I have the card of her painting of the market on the wall above my desk. It's so colourful and full of life, the market exactly. I'll think of you in your cosy house in peaceful Watson and wish sweetness upon sweetness upon you.
Patty
Hi Russell:
You have a special and permanent place in my heart!
We first met at the HG a few years ago when my sister Kathy, her husband Doug, and I stopped in for a quick dinner.
Kathy had terminal brain cancer and despite her illness, she was immediately enamoured with you. No surprise there, and you in your inimitable style, were just yourself.
Doug and I watched with amusement and appreciation as you and her connected in conversation and flirtation…and for a couple of hours, we forgot how sick she was.
Even after her mind was no longer clear, she frequently spoke about you and our dinner. So much so, that I contacted you to tell you about the impact you had on her, and of course us.
She would light up whenever I mentioned your name, and that you had inquired about her, sending your regards, etc. Those moments have become lasting memories for me; thank you.
Love to you and Pauline,
Victoria S. Pritchard
Russell, I missed you at the Cross, thought I would let you know I am improving and part of that improvement was thanks to you and your positive air, I hope you are recovering well as I am and continue to improve with no repeat performances. Enjoy your new retired life and one day maybe when we can both swallow fully again I will buy you a steak at your old haunt. Hope we meet again in a more appealing place,
John Bruce
drop me a line sometime, at firesnake05@yahoo.ca
Dear Russ - I was shocked when i read Scott McKeen's column. The posts here do not surprise me. You always left an impression on people, That smile will do it every time. If I am ever in Watson, Sask., I will definitely look you up, and maybe bring you a ham and cheese sandwich.:) Wow, it's been over 40 years.
Love and best wishes to you and Pauline. Take good care and enjoy the retirement.
Viola
Hi Russell,
Best wishes and prayers from someone who remembers you fondly from your days at The Steak Loft.
Jack Morrow
Russ, it seems like a very long time since we last spent time together in Edmonton, at least 35 years I guess. I wanted to let you know that I am on the same journey you are on, only my sanctuary is at Pender Harbour on the Sunshine Coast. Dave Sorochan shared your story with me and I was touched by how your taking things in stride, the way I always remember you doing. I know that you will do very well in the future and that, like me, for however long that is you will enjoy every day. I met a Texas Farmer down in Houston at the MD Anderson Cancer Centre that shared a simple but important thought with me. He told me that every morning, if your eyes open and your feet hit the ground, its a good day. Almost every day since that chance meeting has been a good day for me. I sense that you are having many good days yourself.
Dave Sorochan, Gil Mercier and I tried to get Fred out for a lunch a few months ago, but his schedule didn't permit. I will seek him out again soon, just to catch up after so many years.
Take care Russ, and if you want to get in touch, I would love to catch up.
Barry Jackowich
Russell,
Whenever Scott & I had the opportunity to get out without our kids, it was never a question of where we wanted to go. The Hardware grill of course, but not only because of the food, atmosphere, etc.... but mainly because we knew we would have the best service, & an enjoyable visit with you!
We have celebrated our wedding anniversary many times and have brought friends to share a night out, knowing that we would enjoy your charming, knowledgeable, & attentive service. We have traveled the world, eaten at many a fine establishment, but have never have had a server as wonderful as you!
The last couple of times we were out, you weren't there and we missed you. We are very sorry to hear of your health struggles, but will be keeping you close in our thoughts for better days ahead! Enjoy your new home, the golf games, & each great drive! next time your in Edmonton, come out to the course for a round with us!
We will miss you, & your beautiful smile!
Francine & Scott Krupa
Russell: I haven't been to the Hardware Grill in some time and, like many others, read the latest about you in Scott's column. It was quite a tribute to you as a professional and as a person. I took some time and read the many posts on the Hardware Grill website. It must be gratifying indeed to know how many lives you have touched. The message that emanates is clear and unequivocal and one that I am happy to summarize --- Russell, you're a class act! Edmonton's loss is Saskatchewan's gain. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your wife as you as you face the challenges ahead. Here's hoping you are able to experience a lengthy retirement with the same kind of happiness and joy you brought to so many others for so many many years. Au revoir et bon chance mon ami. A la prochaine fois,
Ivan I
I had the opportunity to dine at the Hardware Grill back in 2007. Absolutely floored by the waiter we had that evening. We were treated like royalty by the man they call "Rooster". All the best Brother as you start a new chapter in your Long and Happy life. Take care
Dear Russ
A short note to send our love and best wishes to you and Pauline.
We were fortunate to catch Scott McKeen's column in the Journal last week,and wanted you to know,you have been in our thoughts.
We have many fond memories of great service,and fun visits,while dining in our favorite restaurants where you worked.
Your friendly and charming manner and great service made the good food at Jack's and The Hardware Grill even better.
We send hugs to you and will always keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of You!!
Love from the Smolyk's
Jerry,Midge,Kirstie and Lindy
Hello Russ,Sorry to hear about the bad news, I hope everything goes well for the resr of the trip. Knowing you for 45 years or more has been a wonderful experience and I will always remember how nice you were to me. I think of you often and will miss you greatly brother. You never did come to see my yard. All the best to you and Pauline. See you in the Smitty's in the sky.Bruce Sharon Dylan and our Grandson Jake Alexander
Hi Russell,
It's a pleasure to have met you years ago, when I came to hardware grill with my mother and larry(step dad.) And I was sick and went home but i loved your concern although I did not eat there.And Every time I visit my family In Edmonton( the 6 Hour flight from NYC) I make sure to get a booking in your section at the Hardware grill as part of the deal for me coming so far. I am now living in Rome, Italy. With my tall,dark and handsome, he reminds me of you. I don't know if I will ever come back, But if I do, I will still ask for a table in your section.
Love
Carol ann Ransaw
Hey Rusty!!!
Where have all the years and people gone? Hanging out at Walt's Table Supply and Smitty's in the sixties doesn't seem like that long ago brother. We always seemed destined to cross each others paths throughout life, sometimes in the least likely places. I remember driving through a blinding snowstorm near Ft.Saskatchewan in the wee hours only to find you hitching by the side of the road!! I will always look fondly on our times together. I did get your phone message but was unable to call you back due to my own medical crisis. I suffered a major heart attack in Jan.04. Survival was touch and go with 2 major by-pass operations. I have never recovered fully from the ordeal and am now semi-retired. I would like to keep in touch. Drop me a line barbdean.thompson@gmail.com
Take good care of yourself, buddy.
Dean
Russell;
Sometimes words are inadequate and somewhat insufficient to express feelings. Please know Max and I have much affection for you. You and Pauline are in our thoughts and our prayers. I wish for you what I wish upon myself, peace and grace as we continue on life's journey.
Thank you for having enriched my life simply by having met you so many, many years ago. I have picked up The Prophet and will re-read it.
With much love,
Grace
Penny was right..I certainly do want to wish you all the best in your retirement Russ...and who knows? Maybe one day my travels will take me to a small town called Watson so that I can also wish you well in person..I think of you often and have many fun memories of skipping school and hanging out with you and your friends..Eli's Cafe and bubblegum..LOL..those were such fun times!! xo Little Karol xo
Hey Russell,
Sorry we didn't get to see you one more time this summer before you retired to Watson. All our family want you to know how much we have appreciated your friendship over the last 20 years that have gone by so quickly.
We always felt you were part of the family when we dined together on special nights out. And we will miss you much more than you can imagine, as will all your devoted following at Jack's and the H.G. Because it wasn't so much the great food we came for. It was in anticipation of seeing you again and knowing that you would take such good care of us with your ready smile and genuine warmth. All the fun, laughter and many good memories we shared together, we owe to you. It just won't be the same on all our special occasions without you there to welcome us back. We will miss you a lot and wish you and Pauline good health and happiness in your retirement together.
love from the MaGathan's
Mike, Jose, Maegan and Cam
Rooster:
i know all cooks are supposed to hate servers, but you are the best i've ever worked with.. miss you lots!
brie
Hey Russell!
From the moment Bruce introduced you to Art and me, I knew that you are no ordinary guy. It was always a treat to visit with you in the restaurant and a complete pleasure to watch you work with food, and people! I thought from the very beginning that .. if the world were peopled with Russells .. there would be no problems. Best of luck in Saskatchewan. Mary & Art Packer
Uncle Russ!!!
Oh how you will be missed by all....You know that my family loves you and has enjoyed your kindness to us all over the years. Though you wern't my "real" uncle...you will, always be my Uncle Russ :)
Love,
Dana Danyluk (and of course Joe, Lois, Kelsey and Rochelle)
Hi brother, Just want to send both Trish's and my love to both you and Pauline. Hope that you are feeling well, and you know that we both miss your hug's, your word's and that always to be missed, and never matched, friendship with incredible service. You are one of a kind Russ. Just hit the ball straight, as always enjoy the morning sun, and that great bottle of wine with dinner!
Thoughts and love, Trish and Vance.
Hello cousin,
Joyce and I had a wonderful time with you, Pauline and Sharon last week. We'll be back next August when we can get in a round and spend more time together. Get well and say hi to Pauline and Sharon. You have a lovely home Russ......Love you,
cousin Doug
WELL RUSSELL I TOO WAS SURPRISED BY THE ARTICLE IN THE EDMONTON JOURNAL BUT NOT SURPRISED BY THE OUTPOURING OF LOVE FOR YOU. ALTHOUGH WE MET 1000 YEARS AGO I NEVER FORGOT YOUR CHARM AND YOUR SMILE. I WISH YOU AND PAULINE PEACE AND LOVE. RUSSELL LONG MAY YOU RUN. ALL MY LOVE BECKY
No shirt sleeves at the Jubie, a waiter you didn’t like at ________ and nights at JG.
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Hi --- just read the article about you on this site, and have to say it is too bad that you are not around the Hardware Grill to teach newcomers how to treat the customers. Last night was my first visit to the Grill, and if I go by my experience with the waiter we had, it will be my last. He did not make me feel welcome, or comfortable at all. In fact, I found him rude, arrogant and condesending to say the least. Now, maybe it was just me, not understanding his 'sense of humour' if that is what one would call it... but when I have relayed my experience to others, they all agree with my assessment. From the start, when asking if he could bring us something to drink, (I don't drink much, but do enjoy dacquaries.. so asked about them)and being told that the "blended or fruity drinks are not available, that we are not that kind of place" to the end, when having dessert, he stopped by to see how it was going, and my husband was still working on his, as was I, he made a comment to my husbands response that yes, he was still working on it, to the effect that "well, if not, I am sure you (meaning me) will finish it", which made me feel like he thought of me as a pig, hog, glutton... that would clean up my husbands plate. I was very upset after dinner, and my husband knew something was wrong, but I am a lady, and don't like to make a scene in the restaurant. On the way home, after hearing of my feelings, my husband wished I would have said something, as he then would not have left the tip that he did.
So, even though I have never met you, or been waited on by you, I am sure you will be missed in this industry... truly is hard to find good help! Best of luck to you in the future!!!
I too was one of the many that felt like my table was the only table in the place when Russel was our server. It didn't matter if Russel served you or not, he always made his way over to say hi and ask how life was treating you. I will always look for his friendly smile and warm spirit when I enter the the Hardware Grill. He truly was what made the Hardware Grill spectacular for me.
all the best
Bambi
Hi Russel,
We wish you and Pauline all the best. We will miss you so much at The Hardware Grill. You were always our favorite server.Your charm, your smile, your service, your wonderful stories......No one will be able to take your place.
You will be greatly missed by so many people.
My dad Frank wishes you all the best aswell.
Warmest Wishes Russell.
Britta and Mike Yasinski
Rooster...
Sorry this arrives so late. Thanks for the love and the entertainment over the years. Watching Larry try to hunt you down because of a couple truffles was one of the most memorable moments for me at the HG. All the best to you in Sask. My favorite saying comes from you too. "The wider the waistband...." You know how to finish it off. Love yuh, you 'filthy pig'.
Clark xo
Hey, Rooster, Ian and I will miss you on our delightful visits at Hardware and running into you at the farmer's market and around. I hope you have lots of love in your orchard retreat with your lovely wife as you find your way back to blooming health.
And if you ever want to look into a vegan raw food for health, just ask. I'd love to share what I know.
Hi Pauline and Russell.
I've heard the news. I wish it wasn't true. You still have the love and support from Pauline and your pets. Stay strong, take care of yourself. Merry Christmas!
Love Mario at the Hardware.
Well Russell..keep it up
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